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Thank you, one and all!!

Thanks everyone for the support with my kiddo. Today is much, much better. Last night about 9:00 I finally calmed him (and myself, heh) enough to eat some dinner, and thirty minutes later he went to bed (without being asked).

Yes, he had his medicine this morning )

Now, can somebody tell me why, when on December 28 it is 80 degrees and sunny outside, the kids act like it is abuse when you send them out to play? Gah! Yesterday my wife and I even took them to the park and they didn’t want to go. Might miss something on TV, dad.

Hope everyone is well…

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Today has been a rough one, even by my standards. It started this morning when we all overslept – past 9 AM. I decided not to awaken my oldest to give him his ADD medicine (now is where y’all can bitchslap me for having him on medicine in the first place)

We made it through the day with just minor frustrations and squabbles. We had no organized activities today – school is out for another week, Christmas is behind us, no sports – so we were hoping we’d glide through. We were hoping he’d eat for a change. We were hoping.

Since 6:00 tonite I have heard him cussing like a sailor, screaming bloody murder at me and everyone else (the baby, too), he has broken toys, kicked walls and doors, and threatened all kinds of mean, nasty things. I’ve tried to get him to eat, to talk, to focus on just me, nothing has worked.

The things he has said and done to us, had they happened to a sitter or a relative, are just intolerable.

So, yeah, happy holidays everyone. May your day be a little better than mine. No, I take that back, a lot better. Peace.

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Why homework wears ME out

Me: Where’s your homework?
Him: I don’t know.
Me: Okay… where’s your backpack?
Him: I don’t know.
Me: Can we perhaps look for it?
Him: No, “Smallville” is on.
Me: click.
Him: Gosh!
Me: Once again, where’s your backpack?
Him: It’s still in the car.
Me: …
Him: Can I watch “Smallville” now?
Me: No, it’s time to do your homework. Go get your backpack.
Him: But I don’t know where it is!
Me: You just said it was in the car.
Him: Oh, yeah.
Me: Can you maybe go get it now?
Him: Okay.
(minutes pass)
Him: I found my backpack, but the dog got out when I came back inside.
Me: (go get dog)
Me: Okay, how are we doing on homework?
Him: Huh?
Me: Your homework. How are you doing on it?
Him: I can’t find it.
Me: Wasn’t it in your backpack? (dreading answer)
Him: No.
Me: Well, where is it?
Him: I took it out of my backpack. It’s probably still in the car.
Me: (must. control. fist. of. death.)
Him: (realizing his certain peril) I’ll go get it.
(minutes pass, I’m holding the dog by the collar the whole time)
Dog: Gah!
Him: Okay, here it is.
Me: Finally. Let’s read the directions.
Him: Answer the following problems. Color all the “even” answers to complete the puzzle. My teacher said we don’t have to color the answers.
Me: But that’s half the directions! 1) solve 2) color
Him: She said it was optional!
Me: Okay, look, it’s your grade. But if you don’t follow directions and get a bad grade, don’t blame me.
Him: Nice try at a guilt trip, dad.
Him: Hey, can I have some carrots? (jumps up)
Me: Can you start working the problems now?
Him: (munch munch) after I eat my carrots. Can I have some juice?
Me: AFTER you do some homework.
Him: OK. (does problems. Takes three minutes)
Me: Are you going to color the even ones?
Him: No, it’s optional. You never listen to me!
Me: …
Him: Hey, we have crayons! (jumps up)
Him: (colors happily)
Me: great, thanks. Now when is this due?
Him: It’s optional! Sheesh.
Dog: Gah!

Oh, yes, and that was just the first page. I’ll let you imagine the other ten.

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Stuff

I’m at odds with myself over whether I need to post all the details of this weekend. I think perhaps my depression is trying to grab me again (shock! surprise!) and it’s whispering in my ear that nobody really wants to hear about stuff like this.

So, I’ll keep it short, mostly for the exercise of writing and seeing what happens, and y’all let me know if you need more info. Okay? Cool.

Lessee…

Friday I took off work early, we piled the van full of kids and luggage and other stuff, and we took off for the Dallas area.

After four hours trapped in the car, what could be better than taking the kids to a restaurant? I can’t think of anything, either. So we went.

We went to a place called Mudd’s, in Bartonville. Quit giggling, they used to be in Krum so this is a good thing. The wait staff all had shirts that said “Dig In” and “Why eat dirt when you can have Mudd?” and such. Very good eats. And the poor girl that waited on us? It was her second day. Since we met our outlaws there, there were a dozen of us (only four that are officially “adults”, though) and only one of her, and she still did a bang up job and near as I can tell did not quit or run screaming into the night.

Then we went back to their house and watched the kids run wild for a bit. My wife and I took the baby and drove to Super Target to get some last minute supplies. See, this “busy weekend” has baptisms (2) and birthdays (5, depending on how you count them) so we needed a few things.

Saturday morning we managed to get everyone ready and made it to the church on time. (“Church” in this case being a small facility that spread over about two time zones). The priest is the same one who married my wife and I nearly 20 years ago, only now he’s a Monsignor (on the outside. On the inside he’s still the guy we remember from high school) The baptism went great and I have exactly no pictures of it since we were so busy smiling and being happy and all that.

We went back to the in-laws and had lots of food and drink and laughing and even some swimming and caught up with folks that we haven’t seen since around Christmas (some of them) or Mothers Day (others). My mom’s birthday was Saturday, my son turns 5 on Monday so we celebrated that, my daughter turned 2 back in June, my niece just turned 8, my sister had a birthday in June, her new son we met for the first time, etc.

After the food and drink and swimming and more food we were kinda tired, and decided to stay the night.

Oops.

Well, we managed to overstay our welcome in a way that only a family with three ADHD and/or bi-polar children can. So Sunday morning we threw everything in the car and hit the road back home. At home there was laundry, and some errands to run, and some swimming, and dogs to pet, and cats to feed, and sleep to, erm, sleep.

And this morning we went and picked up my car at the shop and then back at work, making my list of things to get done this week so that the kids are ready to start school next Tuesday.

And if you’re still here? Thanks.

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