Cooking for one

I’m learning how to manage my own kitchen!  LOL. I will say it is so very tempting to just eat out, or to eat lots of easy processed foods.  This is at odds with my efforts to be a more healthy person, to lose weight, to actually (gasp) live past fifty. So while I have […]

It ain’t me

Not too long ago I was chatting with a guy in some forum, and he was offering some advice on getting by. Essentially, he said, you have to stop caring, so that you can be objective and move forward with your life. This sounds okay, in theory, I guess; but really I have a hard […]

not perfection

I remember when I was a little kid and we went to Grand Central Station; we were on a train surrounded by other trains, and I would see movement out the window, and it took a little bit to figure out if it was our train that was moving or the one next to us. […]